Allowing Grief to Open Your Heart
Sometimes grief creeps up on us unexpectedly. We may feel that we have processed well, but then the smallest thing, the tiniest trigger or maybe an unexpected outburst of anger tells us otherwise.
Grief connects us to our love and hearts, it connects us with our Divinity, but at the same time conversely it connects us to being human. It connects us to each other and it connects us to the wider world. There is no one on this planet - no sentient being who hasn't or will not feel grief in some form.
Our grief connects us to all that remains unhealed in us and therefore, gives us another opportunity to revisit the unresolved and heal. Every time we acknowledge our pain, our grief, brings us another step closer to being Whole, connecting us to our True Nature.
When we grieve, what are we grieving for ? is it for the loss of another ? or is it that we are grieving at a Little Self level for what we perceive as being lost to us? Our ego life is strong still for many of us, grief can connect us strongly to our ego sense of loss, but also gives us the opportunity to connect move deeply with our Divine nature, and grow our faith and trust in the Universe.
“If this were actually a gift from the universe, what would it be here to teach me?”
― What If This Is Heaven?: How Our Cultural Myths Prevent Us from Experiencing Heaven on Earth
If in the midst and depth of our grief we are able to pause and rest in the stillness, we would maybe see that the person who has died has done so in the Glory of God or in the Love of the Divine. If we were able to see this, we would be released of any sadness or pain, as they are in their True Light Form and are at one with the Unconditional Love of All That Is.
Grief connects us to our love and hearts, it connects us with our Divinity, but at the same time conversely it connects us to being human. It connects us to each other and it connects us to the wider world. There is no one on this planet - no sentient being who hasn't or will not feel grief in some form.
Our grief connects us to all that remains unhealed in us and therefore, gives us another opportunity to revisit the unresolved and heal. Every time we acknowledge our pain, our grief, brings us another step closer to being Whole, connecting us to our True Nature.
When we grieve, what are we grieving for ? is it for the loss of another ? or is it that we are grieving at a Little Self level for what we perceive as being lost to us? Our ego life is strong still for many of us, grief can connect us strongly to our ego sense of loss, but also gives us the opportunity to connect move deeply with our Divine nature, and grow our faith and trust in the Universe.
“If this were actually a gift from the universe, what would it be here to teach me?”
― What If This Is Heaven?: How Our Cultural Myths Prevent Us from Experiencing Heaven on Earth
If in the midst and depth of our grief we are able to pause and rest in the stillness, we would maybe see that the person who has died has done so in the Glory of God or in the Love of the Divine. If we were able to see this, we would be released of any sadness or pain, as they are in their True Light Form and are at one with the Unconditional Love of All That Is.
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| Angels are with Us Always |
For us left behind, the pain of the ego or earthly loss, often makes it incomprehensible that maybe we should be celebrating. Celebrating, not only the earthly achievements of the person in their physical life, but also celebrating their return to the Unconditional Love of their True Nature ( Heaven).
So is it a matter of processing or releasing grief? or is it rather a matter of acceptance, that our loved ones have moved onto a better place without us? that we remain here on Earth and our human life continues?
If we allow ourselves to Trust, if in the depths of pain we open our hearts wider, then this gives us the opportunity to move beyond the pain and accept that this too is part of the journey, for which we all travel.
Grief unites us, if we allow it with the Divine.
Our passed loved ones, are always with us, they know no bounds and are not limited by time and space, for they are Pure Love.
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